I gave her her first real scare
I made up for birth when I got here
Hova probably refers to when he was almost shot to death on the streets while dealing; as he’d later say in the album in Moment of Clarity:
Three shots couldn’t touch me, thank God for that
He could also just refer to the times he was beat up or came home late at night.
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