My hand around her collar, feeding her cheese
Jay-Z choking the woman to intimidate her into cooperation and then beginning to bribe her (cheese = money) into giving him information about the friend with whom he’s had a falling out.
Jay-Z in Decoded explains this line
The “cheese: is money, which I’m feeding her to try to get her to rat out the location of her man.
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