That's when it became apparent to me
That the pimps and hustlers be apparent to me

from Fat Joe – Safe 2 Say (The Incredible) Lyrics on Rap Genius


I think the line should be “be a parent to me”. He realized that the “negative” influences in his life were playing a more important role than his parents at the time.

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