Not like a family of four, just like.. fuck it
Earl’s stops mid line because he’s just that heartbroken. We wish he would explain what he meant by “fam of four”, if not “family of four” though.
It probably simply means that instead of just fucking her, Earl wants a real relationship (not a real family of four).
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