That mean you the one they look at when they cremate
A cremation is the incineration of a dead body. They can happen after a funeral, or during one, there is no set when it happens.
Anyway, he is probably referring to giving a eulogy, which may be given as part of funeral services. A eulogy is a speech or writing in praise of a person, and in this case, a dead person. They are generally given by a close friend or family members.
So with that being said, he is talking about losing a close friend. So he is one of the people making the speech of good words, and every bodies focused on his words, looking at him.
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