I believe that marriage isn't
Between a man and woman but between love and love
He believes in heterosexual as well as homosexual marriage as long as there’s love.
Frank is also saying that marriage (even between a man and a woman) means nothing without real love. Most people get married because they just feel like they’re “supposed to”, it’s what men and women do. Frank talks more about this in American Wedding.
The medieval Persian poet Mawlana Rumi was married to a man named Shams — but said he was not gay; their souls had simply connected (remember there are no homosexuals in Iran…)
This line gained further significance when Frank revealed that his first love was a man in July 2012
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