Love yourself, girl, or nobody will
Oh, you a woman?

from J. Cole (Ft. TLC) – Crooked Smile Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

Cole mock-catches himself referring to the female listener as a “girl,” and quickly switches up his terminology

Using “girl” to describe an adult woman is, as Cole hints by the change, “derogatory or disrespectful”

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