Is it so hard to say the same thing?
And you're so weak to say the same thing
The female in context is rather apprehensive, as stated in the next line, so she is fearful of her future with Abel.
The ‘same thing’ in this line may refer to saying “I love you” as one partner says it and the other repeats it as a mutual return. Often, the word is misused as an attempt to take a sexual relationship to a much more secure level. Even though it may not be meaningful, women may use it as a tool to tie someone down after intercourse — which may be why he believes she is weak for saying it.
The Weeknd, like some men, will say it just for one night of sex.
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