And I'm not with them niggas who be knocking girls up and skate out
So girl you gotta think about how the options weigh out, what's the way out?
He uses clever word play with “weigh [the options] out” and “way out”
He’s saying he’s not like the guy who just has sex with a girl and then abandons her. However, he wants her to have an abortion instead of raising their child as a single mother. He’d like her to consider the consequences of single-motherhood in light of possible alternatives.
This line also functions as a call forward: In the second verse, it is revealed that HIS own father walked out on him, which explains his compulsion to separate himself from that way of thinking.
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