Said I’ll be home for the holidays
So when you see me, better holla at me
I gotta get up out this city ‘fore it try to trap me
I gotta leave, I wish I could stay
But I’ll be home for the holidays
And to those that I used to know
From way before, keep your head up
Come lets get this bread up
Girl, I gotta go, wish I could stay
But I’m coming home for the holidays

from J. Cole – Home for the Holidays Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

Coming home for the holidays is also an analogy for J Coles' relationship with his hometown girl as well. He’s willing to spend time with her (having sex) but only on the holidays, for short periods of time. He doesnt want to put any effort into a long distance/long term relationship because once again J Cole is prioritizing his rap dreams over her. He just wants some occasional sex when he visits his hometown

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