Come to think about it, his name was, it was you, damn
In a haunting ending, Em realizes what Stan has done only when it is too late to help. As the song climaxes a final lightning bolt goes off and thunder is heard. During this final crash, as the lightning lights up the music video, you can see Stan in the window.
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