And while that sweat drip, I am reminded
All the times my brother told me that pussy is blindin'
I'm findin', the more I grow, the more y'all seem to stay the same

from J. Cole – Lights Please Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

While Cole is fuckin his girl, he is reminded f how his brother used to warn him that sex will make you blind, or steer you off course. The more he understands and matures, others seem to be at the same immaturity level as before.

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