Ay when we first met you was too tense for me to get through
And then I got you loose it's like a glove how I fit you

from Wale (Ft. Curren$y & J. Cole) – Rather Be (Vagina Is For Lovers) Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

J. Cole is referring to how when a girl first has sex her vagina is tight, but as they tend to have sex more their vagina gets looser.

Cole might have caught this one when she was a virgin.

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