I ain't that mad though, I just don't like being lied to
It seems here that Stan actually is mad about the incident, but is scared of turning Em away by going off on him. So he decides to switch back to normal and express how important it is that they meet. Even though the anger stopped for a minute, it showed some signs of subdued rage in Stan that has to come out eventually.
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