When I grab your neck, I touch your soul
Take off your cool then lose control
Some real dark shit, Ye. When Kanye grabs the chicks neck, it’s like he has her life in his hands, so he touches her soul. Some girls, however, like to be grabbed by their neck while engaging in sexual activity. When it get’s to that point, it’s pretty much a free-for-all; losing control sexually.
Previously describing her as “Mrs. So-Fly”, he wants her to stop acting cool and flip out…or it could mean take of her chillness and start flipping out, to start showing her real self.
“When I grab your neck” also stops the song from being too victimising. Kanye understands that he was a shitty partner too.
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