What's real, when you talk behind a man's back
Then you see him and give him dap, now explain that?

from Nas – Life We Chose Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

when you talk shit about anyone in particular but once face to face, you’re giving that man props and what not…also can mean making yourself look big amongst your own people and not being able to hold your own when confronted

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