I think this line came from two places. Here’s place 1:
Between 9 and 11, I made some really stupid comments and had some shitty, annoying behavior that got me ostracized and harassed in school, to the point where I just gave up and stopped talking to anyone. The self-hatred I developed from it also caused me to abandon my friend group, who, in retrospect, did seem to actually like and care about me. But at the time I saw their companionship as being solely a result of pity and convenience.
I think my father’s death, as well as moving at the age of 8 from a town where I was exceptionally popular, to a city where I was far less accepted, (not to mention a city that wasn’t nearly as closely nit, and had a much higher ratio of kids treating each-other like shit) pushed me into the direction of just being an entirely unlikable and obnoxious kid.
Between 12 and 13 I was a lot better, but was mentally fractured by not just what I had to put up with in the past, but also not being able to catch up socially to my peers. For the most part I think I was a pretty normal kid, but being in a situation where one, I’m not getting any emotional and mental stimulation at school, and two, I’m not even getting emotional and mental stimulation at home from anyone except my brother, (mom was out all the time and my sister was out doing her thing) I would occasionally, maybe once a year, do something incredibly stupid just to get attention. That’s not why I thought I was doing it, but now that I’ve matured and understand myself a lot better, that was definitely why.
Now here’s why that’s important to the line: I think I began thinking of myself as a martyr who took all kinds of abuse and neglect for other people for the sake of good. When I stopped talking to other kids, I was doing it for them. I can say that confidentally, although nowadays I don’t think that was the only reason. Even at 14, which was actually a really good year for me mentally, all the way up to… maybe a couple years ago, this martyr complex had been a problem for me.
Place 2: Much more fitting with the theme, considering the possibility there was no God felt like fucking torture. I think I was 13 when I started calling myself an agnostic and 17 when I converted to full-fledged atheist, but my faith in God was so fucking strong in my younger years that, even as an agnostic, I constantly thought of what death would be like if God really exists. That didn’t stop until I started calling myself atheist.