I went home in June of 2009. My mother had taken my dad to Anchorage (a six hour drive from North Pole) to see a neuro psychology specialist. Three weeks later the tests were to come in. We already knew the results wouldn’t be positive, so I needed to be there with my family.
The results of his battery of tests were delivered to us via conference call. It was a beautiful day out. I stared out the window fighting off tears as the doctor told us that my father’s cognitive skills were far below average in many areas. That he was clearly showing signs of dementia, and they were going to assume it was early onset Alzheimer’s. My father disagreed of course and tried to convince us he was fine and the doctor was full of shit.
I remember the cold calculated tone of the doctor. He was only doing his job, but I hated his voice. As he read the result of test after test, all poor results with no sugar coating, my mother and I silently cried, trying not to let my dad notice. I eventually had to leave the table and go to my room to collect myself.
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