Steven is my younger brother. I’m extremely proud of him. He’s a hard worker, a homeowner, and has grown to be my best friend, though we fought like cats and dogs as kids. We tend to avoid talking too much about what’s happening. Steven is a real man’s man, showing emotion is not easy for us, it’s not how we were raised. That comes from our dad.
Our father was a medic in the Air Force, so even getting sympathy when we were hurt was a rarity. A sick day home from school was unheard of, and going to the hospital was strictly for broken bones or open wounds (which he often stitched and casted himself). That attitude of not showing pain or emotion is carried on from him.
After I released the song my father’s sister contacted me on facebook, reinforcing that their family was not “lovey dovey and didn’t show how much they loved eachother” so I suppose it’s generational.
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