But you haven't asked for my help, when I asked for myself
And your answer was withheld
That was bad for my health

from Homeboy Sandman – Listen Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

She never asked for help or even made much of an attempt to communicate about what was troubling her which stressed the guy out.

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