I had you, but you can’t have me, I never stay

from J. Cole – Stay (2009) Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

He ‘had her’ as in slept with her but she can’t ‘have him’ as in be in a relationship with him because he’s just using her for sex and is actually with the girl from earlier in the verse.

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