See, I've been giving it some thought lately and
Frankly I'm feel like we ain't ready and this..

from J. Cole – Lost Ones Lyrics on Rap Genius

“We ain’t ready for this” automatically sounds like he wants out and/or wants to make the decision for her that they aren’t ready to have a kid… at least from a woman’s perspective.

(This is the first time abortion is hinted at in the song.)

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