And your plans only can pan around love
You love him, you love them, you love her
You love so much you love when love hurts
Some women obsess over finding “love” in order to fill a hole in their hearts caused by past experiences. Also most likely refers to women staying in destructive/abusive relationships like in “Opposites Attract”, with “you love when love hurts” possibly being an allusion to loving the drama of a breakup.
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