Oh oh. Too much. Too much.
The speaker is overwhelmed with grief with cousin Vit. In this moment he/she, too, seems to be “on the verge…of hysterics” (see lines 13-14), but Brooks' exquisite formal control keeps the emotion within bounds.
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