I got too much to lose
You got too much to prove
She has too much to lose (image, career, etc.) being that this song is about Ochocinco she could be referring to her image. She fights against domestic violence and dating him would make her look confused.
And he has too much to prove (proving that he’s actually not that abusive guy and that he’s faithful along with a lot of other things)
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