But, I noticed a change in him when me and my husband broke up
Jay was only 12 when his father left home without providing a reason at first. At that point Gloria Carter was left a single parent raising Jay and his siblings. And as any other person that has gone through divorce knows, the kids, especially those at a younger age, are most affected by it and you will without a doubt start to see changes in their behavior after the parents separate.
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