I be tryna figure out why I cannot commit
With who I’ve known for years, is it hoes or fear

from J. Cole – The Cure Lyrics on Rap Genius

Meaning

He’s been struggling to figure out why he can’t commit to his long time girlfriend. Is it because of the groupies he meets and fucks, or a fear of commitment itself?

Cole and his long time girlfriend:

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